The custom of funeral flowers endures because they a sympathetic tribute, while also being an important symbol, in some cultures, of the cycle of life, death and renewal. The beauty of the funeral and sympathy flowers may also bring a small bit of light into the life of the bereaved. Decisions can be difficult in times of stress. We’ve put together a short guide to funeral flowers to help you know the types of arrangements that are traditional for funeral services.
Funeral Flowers or Sympathy Flowers?
These are actually two different things. Sympathy flowers are usually small to mid-sized arrangements sent directly to the family and other mourners of the deceased. They are for you to express your sympathy for their bereavement.
Funeral flowers are sent directly to the funeral home. These arrangements are typically much larger, with a more formal and stately form. Some may have stands so that they can be arranged around the casket, memorial or at the graveside.
Which Flowers Adorn the Casket?
Traditionally the casket top and/or the areas surrounding the casket are reserved for the flowers of the closest family members. If you are not a family member, it’s best to check with them first before ordering flowers for the casket itself. Other displays will usually be more appropriate.
What Are the Typical Displays?
- Casket sprays are the flowers that cover the top of the casket. You will have a variety of designs to choose from.
- Standing sprays, which come in a variety of forms—bouquets, crosses or hearts, for example, and are displayed on an easel.
- Bouquet arrangements are smaller, usually in baskets or vases.
Does the Religion of the Deceased Matter?
Yes, it can. There are few hard and fast rules, but it’s a good idea to take that into consideration. A florist will usually be able to give advise on the best type of flowers and displays to send.
Funerals are stressful events for most involved, but sometimes tradition helps things fall into place. Don’t hesitate to ask for help in choosing the right flowers, for the right time.
